What to do when Your Spouse is a Backseat Driver

Of course you love your spouse, but do you feel the need to have separate vehicles when you are driving together to work or a week end road trip? If your answer is yes, read on to find out how you can maintain a safe environment when one of you is behind the wheel.

1. It is possible to get lost, even with the use of maps and GPS. Sit down and come to a mutual agreement on direction responsibility. This will avoid chaos when you do lose your way. Also, delegate the task of asking directions. This should be done by the passenger, because they will be more familiar with the information given in the map.


2. You know each other’s driving style and probably don't even approve of it. However, if you find your spouse's unusual behavior while driving, get them to talk to you and calm them down. Then, perhaps, the driver can pay proper attention to driving safely.


3. As a passenger, do not gasp or make some other distractive action if you come across a situation that poses potential danger. It is difficult to control impulsive reactions but they end up distracting the driver. Instead just calm the driver and alert them about the issue.